the length of time to attend between very very first and 2nd dates

the length of time to attend between very very first and 2nd dates

the length of time to attend between very very first and 2nd dates

Had a pleasurable date on Saturday and and my date stated it might be good to generally meet once more. No company plans made at that time and thus far, a day later, no contact after him but I did really like him from him. Should I take this as he’s not keen to pursue things? Reluctant to ‘chase!

He’ll contact you on Tuesday.

How will you understand?!

Yes, Tuesday could possibly be most likely.

Sunday is simply too quickly (he will not desire to be too eager), Monday is very first time of working week (many people are coping with weekend/back to the office blues), so Tuesday is probably about right.

Just How are you in contact before, and just how often?

When it comes to previous two days by e-mail. One message on a daily basis because of the odd time with out a message

We’d expect message by the next day and would give consideration to moving forward if there was clearlyn’t one by having a good description.

Does he constantly initiate contact?

This has been a mix between who has got initiated the contact. We sent a text yesterday evening to state many thanks in which he replied right back saying he’d enjoyed the date.

He will text you through the if not on Tuesday week. Have patience

Just experience from aeons ago! He would ring on Tuesday if you swapped numbers with a bloke on Saturday.

Your position is a little various though.

Thank you for the reassuring terms. Intrigued by this miracle Tuesday wait! A new comer to all of this on line stuff that is dating. Little bit of a psychological minefield.

It once was called the 3 rule back in the time day. First day is simply too quickly, 2nd time could be too apparent, 3rd day keeps you guessing.

But that is after very first contact, maybe maybe not date that is first you had been currently frequently in touch.

Real but possibly he is puzzled: )

Message withdrawn at poster’s demand.

Then i think you just do have to leave it to him to follow up at some point this week if you were already in regular contact and it’s your ‘turn’ to text, but you want him to be the one to pursue asking specifically about when the next date will be.

If you do not simply text and get him. On Tuesday.

Bollocks for this delay that is 3-day. Him again ask him if you want to see!

‘Hi x, enjoyed our date, have you been free on x-day or x-day to meet once more? ‘

Change: got a text early this am to state hey and exactly how had been my sunday etc. Replied but added hoped to generally meet once again once we obtain the possibility. Fingertips crossed!

He had been most likely wondering why you had not held it’s place in touch, since he had been the past to make contact with.

Therefore, formally it really is their check out make contact now but I would personally like to deliver him a note. Argh. Can not stay all this work my change, your change ritual!

You are able to nevertheless content, IMO. Just be sure it generally does not turn out to be a single conversation that is sided.

Forget any ridiculous guidelines about what amount of times and whom should ask whom.

If another date is wanted by you, ask him.

He’ll either say yes, or no.

There is great deal of game players in OD. Aren’t getting drawn involved with it, or think you must play them.

We came across OH on line. We chatted on phone on Saturday, came across for coffee on Sunday, and 2 hours he phoned me asking me out to see a band on the Tuesday night after we went our own ways. Did I think ‘oh no, he’s too keen, he did not wait 3 times, oh just what a pity’. No, I was thinking ‘great, he likes me personally too’.

I have so giddy over dating on MN

I really want to get life do not We?

Many thanks for upgrading – I would state wait a few days then give him a nudge if he does not get in contact if you will be thinking about seeing him once again. It does not harm in the event that you recommend doing one thing together. Best of luck

It really is Secure Wednesday the next day. SW may be the day in making the date that is next.

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